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The Cleft in the Rock, The House the Mercy Built
I was preparing for a Missions Conference at First Baptist Church
in Merchantville, the home church of Nancy Palais and her daughter
Sandy, as well as Chris’ church, Chris being one of the men in my
groups at Southern. Accompanying me would be Matt Roncone, his
mother Betty, the Guiddy’s, Rich and Maria, and Andrea Castellane.
The year was 2006, Matt and Rich had just recently been released
from Southern and I was truly looking forward to seeing and hearing
how they would handle themselves in the church setting. They are
both very dear to me and I look for God to do good things in their
lives for the future. Matt and Rich could share what God had done
and was doing in their lives and the girls could share the hardships
and heartaches they endured while the men did their time.
As it
turned out they all did very well, were warmly received and really
had an enjoyable time, Friday and Saturday evening. The pastor took
me aside Saturday evening, told me his speaker for Sunday morning
had backed out and would I be able to fill in? I agreed.
As I parked
my car at home, I glanced at the cottage next to where I
parked…abandoned, shabby, and now owned by the camp. Throughout the
night I continued to think about the cottage and the possibilities,
especially considering the location, directly across from the pool,
and caddy-corner from my house . Fixed up, it would be great for
group teaching, counseling, picnicking, and even use as a guest
cottage for my grandkids and Wings people from North Jersey.
I
remembered the camp had offered camp-owned cottages for $100.00 to
members that would fix them up in a timely manner, wondering if I
could do that???? I ran it past Paul Pedrick, my dear friend and
camp president. He didn’t have a problem with it, in fact thought it
a good idea as long as I would be willing to promise not to house
newly released men. This was not a problem for me since I knew I was
no longer capable of investing myself in the intense aftercare
needed when a man first comes out of prison. I also knew the Lord
had brought me to Malaga to keep me mindful of my limitations and
age. I can do bits and pieces of aftercare with men I already know
from inside, having a ready-built relationship to build on.
The next
day I went back to the church for the morning service and as I was
finishing the message, I asked the congregation to pray about the
“house” explaining to them what I had in mind. As I was greeting
people, a few encouraged me to move forward, thinking it a great
idea. One couple put a check in my hand for $100.00, telling me this
was my money to buy the cottage! A heart’s desire realized? This was
something I always wanted to do, be available to support men and
their families transition from in-prison to out. Quite possibly this
was the answer.
Coincidentally (?) I had just heard from one of the
Wings men from years ago, 20 to be accurate, who wanted to get back
with the Lord, looked me up on the internet and called. He just
happened to be a contractor all of his adult life, could build just
about anything. I decided to talk to him about the possibilities and
probabilities…could it indeed be done.
We talked it over and agreed
it could be done, especially if God was in it. There were a few
other things that happened that confirmed to me that I should
proceed. After polling my Board of Directors and getting their
approval and encouragement, I proposed it to the Board of Directors
at Malaga at their next meeting. It was approved for me to purchase
the house for the $100.00 with the agreement to make improvements in
a timely way and we were on our way.
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